Ha, WOW. I loved the movie!! It's every reason I don't like feminists, and every good reason to look at both sides.
The numbers are astounding. ..the rational complaints are real.
Ofc women want rights and equality under the laws, but it's moved so far beyond that when they're also always seem as victims, when that's clearly wrong. I'm giving this to both my sons. .
Thank you for that experience. Imo the solution is to see each other as people first, to imagine what it's like from the other side of whatever issue or relationship we're dealing with. Bc not all women are victims, , and not all men are abusers. It goes both ways. And how would anyone feel in a courtroom that favors one gender over another in custody battles. Not all men want to be good fathers, but that shouldn't remove the rights of the men who are, and want to continue to be after a separation from the mother.
Omg I better stop I could go on chatting about this lol. Too many great points to think about at once. Loved it tho, thank you.
lol Mark ...If you dont feel someone really knows or understand you, yet theyre insisting they do, then youre right, they dont know you *unless you agree with how well they think they know you lol! The pepto bismol stream below reminds me .. shes already said very clearly ..in her Own words.. shes "a crackhead". Why bang your head on those walls? She doesnt want "unity", she wants agreement lol Most women arent going to deal w that and why there are so few of us on the site lol
I just watched the trailer but not the movie yet. But its not hard to fathom why many men are pissed off. I consider myself "liberated" bc I enjoy my freedoms, I dont have to ask daddy or husband before I spend my own money, I have job opportunities my mom never dreamed of, I can enjoy the same paycheck for doing the same work ...etc etc. But this whole "feminist" movement where women are blaming every man for all the abuses suffered in lets say, domestic violence, ..when many men have dealt w overbearing, demanding women who berate and sometimes physically abuse their own husbands. Or have children from other men while the husband supports them without knowing theyre not his kids, ...or women who only marry for money, wait 5 years and take half of everything hes earned. The list goes on ..maybe some of that will show up in the red pill. Thanks for that share. But to ask opinion about the sexes from an almost-50 woman who says "bros before hos!!" and totally means it, haha.. you were asking for it, and you got it lol
first off Im impressed, :) you didnt even sweat that. She left 4-5 before you even replied.
Youre getting calmer Mark Im happy for you bc its not worth the anger you had for this before.
I can’t care if someone leaves & comes back 800 times ..I’m sorry but I just cannot do it & at that point I could no longer even pretend to do it lol - SORRY!!!
back n the day you & I would talk extensively both on our pages & in pms …I listened to you go on about Sherrie a million times …which was fine & I was happy to do
how can you say I never got to know you in-depth? …I know more about you than probably anyone here ….and if not, then who?? …who here knows you better??
have I gotten to know the ppl here in-depth in the past - yes
did I get to know you in-depth in the past - yes
so these days we all know each other in-depth!!
besides JP I hardly post more than a line or 2 to anyone ….bc that’s how the rest of us talk around here …short n sweet ….Mark you honestly take a lot of my energy & that’s my whole point
can you possibly find it anywhere within yourself to just move on & try things my way? …if you don’t like it, tell me to fuck off …it’s really just that easy lol
Mark pls just leave the past in the past OR don’t deal with me … all of this rehashing just kills everything fun & good here …it makes you upset & ruins my attitude …we either have to move on or ignore each other …idk what else to say about it
look at your page!! …I have typed more paragraphs here tonight to YOU than I’ve typed to anyone else in years!!!
LOOK AT THIS PAGE MARK!!!! ….do you not see where fucking off with Crevo & Cranky would be more fun for me than typing paragraphsssssss & the person on the receiving end (YOU)is still not being satisfied??
Mark - this is exactly what I mean!! …I’m telling you my honest feelings & taking accountability for how I am & you’re already not accepting what I have to say
do you not see where that gets frustrating & tedious for me??? …look at Crevo, cranky, Ned …none of them would press me on it …they would just take my answer and move on…same I would do for them …..bc it’s not that serious!! …WE’RE TRYING TO HAVE FUN HERE!! …NOT BE BORING & SERIOUS!!!!
and if you don’t like that (which obv you don’t have to) then you need to realize you shouldn’t get twisted up with me & just move on to ppl that better share your idea of how internet friendships should be
I’ve told you this a million times … you want more out of me than I give & you want me to be a certain way & I’m just not that way, I’m this way ….& at 46 I want to be who I want to be …it’s like you just can’t move past that …so for many years now we’ve just been stuck there …like why do you expect so much more out of me than you do everyone else? …besides JP most everyone here is trading troll comments …so why is it not ok for me?
I think it’s probably really nice being a man & taking care of the ppl you love … I have no idea my darkest fear …probably at my age it’s gonna be losing one of my parents … I love them so much & can’t imagine not having them here with me
all the rest I think I can get through … I’ve already gotten through a shit ton, so with that gained a lot of self confidence & life experience
it’s not what Ryan thinks, it’s how we were making him feel … I think you & I got used to it so it was whatever to us, but I think it made him uncomfortable & I don’t like my actions making someone as nice as him uncomfortable ..esp over nothing serious anyway
and ngl Mark … I have changed here ..and probably IRL too …I get too invested in other ppls issues & it starts to wear me out ..I like easy ppl & trading fast easy comments …I just enjoy it more like that bc it takes less energy …you kinda do come here to get to know ppl on a deeper level … & just like quick & easy …that probably sounds bad but oh well - it’s me & it’s true … I feel like most of the ppl I talk to here are the same wey, so for me & them, it works …I’m sorry if it makes you feel like I’m uninterested …but tbh I’m more interested in having fun than I am in dramatic friendships ….I fight with none of my friends here ever …bc they let me be me & I let them be them …and after 13 years of this, it’s just where I’m at with my online life …it’s no intentional slight against anyone else
and yes, I say stand your ground …be firm but not rude & just let her see that acting like that isn’t gonna get her the result she’s looking for …she’ll either quit or move on …and then if she moves on, yes - fuck her lol
I feel like I know most of the stuff about being a woman, but I feel like I have a lot to learn still from & about men so it piques my interest I guess
Sierra
4y ago
Ha, WOW. I loved the movie!! It's every reason I don't like feminists, and every good reason to look at both sides.
The numbers are astounding. ..the rational complaints are real.
Ofc women want rights and equality under the laws, but it's moved so far beyond that when they're also always seem as victims, when that's clearly wrong. I'm giving this to both my sons. .
Thank you for that experience. Imo the solution is to see each other as people first, to imagine what it's like from the other side of whatever issue or relationship we're dealing with. Bc not all women are victims, , and not all men are abusers. It goes both ways. And how would anyone feel in a courtroom that favors one gender over another in custody battles. Not all men want to be good fathers, but that shouldn't remove the rights of the men who are, and want to continue to be after a separation from the mother.
Omg I better stop I could go on chatting about this lol. Too many great points to think about at once. Loved it tho, thank you.
Sierra
4y ago
lol Mark ...If you dont feel someone really knows or understand you, yet theyre insisting they do, then youre right, they dont know you *unless you agree with how well they think they know you lol! The pepto bismol stream below reminds me .. shes already said very clearly ..in her Own words.. shes "a crackhead". Why bang your head on those walls? She doesnt want "unity", she wants agreement lol Most women arent going to deal w that and why there are so few of us on the site lol
Sierra
4y ago
I just watched the trailer but not the movie yet. But its not hard to fathom why many men are pissed off. I consider myself "liberated" bc I enjoy my freedoms, I dont have to ask daddy or husband before I spend my own money, I have job opportunities my mom never dreamed of, I can enjoy the same paycheck for doing the same work ...etc etc. But this whole "feminist" movement where women are blaming every man for all the abuses suffered in lets say, domestic violence, ..when many men have dealt w overbearing, demanding women who berate and sometimes physically abuse their own husbands. Or have children from other men while the husband supports them without knowing theyre not his kids, ...or women who only marry for money, wait 5 years and take half of everything hes earned. The list goes on ..maybe some of that will show up in the red pill. Thanks for that share. But to ask opinion about the sexes from an almost-50 woman who says "bros before hos!!" and totally means it, haha.. you were asking for it, and you got it lol
Sierra
4y ago
first off Im impressed, :) you didnt even sweat that. She left 4-5 before you even replied.
Youre getting calmer Mark Im happy for you bc its not worth the anger you had for this before.
Sierra
4y ago
LOL!! :D haha omg..
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
ok Mark …good talk bro looooollll
& GOODNIGHT!!
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
OMG!!!…YOU LEFT US 800 TIMES!!!
and look - you are still here Mark!!!
I can’t care if someone leaves & comes back 800 times ..I’m sorry but I just cannot do it & at that point I could no longer even pretend to do it lol - SORRY!!!
and that’s my HONEST & ONLY answer!!!
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
MARK!! THAT IS NOT TRUE!!
back n the day you & I would talk extensively both on our pages & in pms …I listened to you go on about Sherrie a million times …which was fine & I was happy to do
how can you say I never got to know you in-depth? …I know more about you than probably anyone here ….and if not, then who?? …who here knows you better??
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
have I gotten to know the ppl here in-depth in the past - yes
did I get to know you in-depth in the past - yes
so these days we all know each other in-depth!!
besides JP I hardly post more than a line or 2 to anyone ….bc that’s how the rest of us talk around here …short n sweet ….Mark you honestly take a lot of my energy & that’s my whole point
can you possibly find it anywhere within yourself to just move on & try things my way? …if you don’t like it, tell me to fuck off …it’s really just that easy lol
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
and I simply gave you not 1 but 2 answers ….
Mark pls just leave the past in the past OR don’t deal with me … all of this rehashing just kills everything fun & good here …it makes you upset & ruins my attitude …we either have to move on or ignore each other …idk what else to say about it
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
I GIVE THEM SMARTASS CHEEKY TROLL COMMENTS!!
look at your page!! …I have typed more paragraphs here tonight to YOU than I’ve typed to anyone else in years!!!
LOOK AT THIS PAGE MARK!!!! ….do you not see where fucking off with Crevo & Cranky would be more fun for me than typing paragraphsssssss & the person on the receiving end (YOU)is still not being satisfied??
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
Mark - this is exactly what I mean!! …I’m telling you my honest feelings & taking accountability for how I am & you’re already not accepting what I have to say
do you not see where that gets frustrating & tedious for me??? …look at Crevo, cranky, Ned …none of them would press me on it …they would just take my answer and move on…same I would do for them …..bc it’s not that serious!! …WE’RE TRYING TO HAVE FUN HERE!! …NOT BE BORING & SERIOUS!!!!
and if you don’t like that (which obv you don’t have to) then you need to realize you shouldn’t get twisted up with me & just move on to ppl that better share your idea of how internet friendships should be
I’ve told you this a million times … you want more out of me than I give & you want me to be a certain way & I’m just not that way, I’m this way ….& at 46 I want to be who I want to be …it’s like you just can’t move past that …so for many years now we’ve just been stuck there …like why do you expect so much more out of me than you do everyone else? …besides JP most everyone here is trading troll comments …so why is it not ok for me?
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
I think it’s probably really nice being a man & taking care of the ppl you love … I have no idea my darkest fear …probably at my age it’s gonna be losing one of my parents … I love them so much & can’t imagine not having them here with me
all the rest I think I can get through … I’ve already gotten through a shit ton, so with that gained a lot of self confidence & life experience
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
it’s not what Ryan thinks, it’s how we were making him feel … I think you & I got used to it so it was whatever to us, but I think it made him uncomfortable & I don’t like my actions making someone as nice as him uncomfortable ..esp over nothing serious anyway
and ngl Mark … I have changed here ..and probably IRL too …I get too invested in other ppls issues & it starts to wear me out ..I like easy ppl & trading fast easy comments …I just enjoy it more like that bc it takes less energy …you kinda do come here to get to know ppl on a deeper level … & just like quick & easy …that probably sounds bad but oh well - it’s me & it’s true … I feel like most of the ppl I talk to here are the same wey, so for me & them, it works …I’m sorry if it makes you feel like I’m uninterested …but tbh I’m more interested in having fun than I am in dramatic friendships ….I fight with none of my friends here ever …bc they let me be me & I let them be them …and after 13 years of this, it’s just where I’m at with my online life …it’s no intentional slight against anyone else
and yes, I say stand your ground …be firm but not rude & just let her see that acting like that isn’t gonna get her the result she’s looking for …she’ll either quit or move on …and then if she moves on, yes - fuck her lol
GIRLNEXTDOOR
4y ago
maybe I can better explain it like this …
I feel like I know most of the stuff about being a woman, but I feel like I have a lot to learn still from & about men so it piques my interest I guess
ok enough rambling out of me …goodnight x