so my thinking is maybe try & move from the negative headspace you’ve been in this year & just be happy for all of your blessings (you obv have plenty) …like maybe put all your focus on building your future rather than trying to deconstruct your past?
my favorite quote EVER:
it’s not in happiness that we find gratitude ….it’s in gratitude that we find happiness 🩷
you’re smart, so I’m sure if you think about it, you’ll get what it’s saying, but if you don’t get it 100%, let me know & pls allow me to explain ^.^
damn Gus, that’s a whole lot ….obv you’ve thought about it extensively …I get what you’re saying & yes it makes sense ….but I also feel like other men have had comparable family situations and it didn’t cause them to be attracted to men ….like maybe you just like men & there doesn’t need to be some deep-rooted reason for it ….imo, men are awesome so fuck yeah!! haha
I have a question ..have you ever dated a woman you really liked? ….like a quality woman who checked off all your boxes? …are you even physically attracted to women? …who’s your celebrity female crush (physically speaking)?
I feel like a lot of ppl get stuck looking for a reason for things …like why they abuse substances, over eat, in your case are a perfectionist, the meaning of life, etc ….I’m sure as a psychologist-ish (idk your exact qualifications) it might be your nature to go looking for reasons for things ….but maybe sometimes things are just the way they are? ….idk, personally for me in my life, I don’t really go that route …I mean I guess it’s part of the healing process, but at a certain point, to me, it just feels like I’m focusing & dwelling on the past rather than putting that time & energy towards moving forward w the future
imo, you’re a smart, funny, attractive man who can do anything he wants ….I think if you’re really attracted to men and crave that kind of love & affection, then just fucking go for it ….I feel like you’re way past labels, so what’s the worst that could happen?
Hello nigger ! is the party still going on in your nigger ass ? yes , i'm still fucked up just not as bad. i need to slow down but you know a nigger gots to fuck . hows the pup doin ? i'm chillen w/my dogs right now .
your house & your party look fantastic!! ….dude, are you sure you just figured out that you’re gay? ….bc I’m 100% sure there are no straight men out there with such lovely style & taste lol :P
I love the living room w the blue sofa & then also the crystal chandelier in the other sitting room …I used to work at a French antique place and we had a baccarat one that was identical!!
also, your party setup looked so good!! …the food, the place settings, the string lights, etc …all just so perfect!!
In a few weeks I need to start planning my work Christmas party ….I think I’m coming to you for advice lol ….once I get the catering menu, you can please help me pick the menu ^.^
I sincerely hope you had a the best bday ever ….after your stressful year this year, you totally deserved it 🩵
OOOH! HIM! I thought you were talking about someone else for a minute. (1st letter N, last letter D, vowel in the middle. ...ya kno)
do you think i speak and write German? ha,.. nope. Thats what the translator is for. So its not just for dummys, its for the lazy too. I cant be expected to learn an entirely new language for this internet stuff. But if things keep going as theyre going, chinese might come in handy soon enough.
"you'll blink and your ass going to be waking up in a concentration camp." LoL! NO thats not true!! hes a very loyal freind, and you cant continue to believe every German is nazified. Thats just ignorant. Thats like every native american still blaming whites for what columbus and coronado were doing, ...
Wait. Actually they do still blame us so that might not be a good example. But you know what i mean! lol
DustyOlMick
3y ago
Ned told me he wants you to go total bull queer nigger on him and then make sandwiches .
GIRLNEXTDOOR
3y ago
so my thinking is maybe try & move from the negative headspace you’ve been in this year & just be happy for all of your blessings (you obv have plenty) …like maybe put all your focus on building your future rather than trying to deconstruct your past?
my favorite quote EVER:
it’s not in happiness that we find gratitude ….it’s in gratitude that we find happiness 🩷
you’re smart, so I’m sure if you think about it, you’ll get what it’s saying, but if you don’t get it 100%, let me know & pls allow me to explain ^.^
Imo, it’s the key to a happy life 🩷
GIRLNEXTDOOR
3y ago
damn Gus, that’s a whole lot ….obv you’ve thought about it extensively …I get what you’re saying & yes it makes sense ….but I also feel like other men have had comparable family situations and it didn’t cause them to be attracted to men ….like maybe you just like men & there doesn’t need to be some deep-rooted reason for it ….imo, men are awesome so fuck yeah!! haha
I have a question ..have you ever dated a woman you really liked? ….like a quality woman who checked off all your boxes? …are you even physically attracted to women? …who’s your celebrity female crush (physically speaking)?
I feel like a lot of ppl get stuck looking for a reason for things …like why they abuse substances, over eat, in your case are a perfectionist, the meaning of life, etc ….I’m sure as a psychologist-ish (idk your exact qualifications) it might be your nature to go looking for reasons for things ….but maybe sometimes things are just the way they are? ….idk, personally for me in my life, I don’t really go that route …I mean I guess it’s part of the healing process, but at a certain point, to me, it just feels like I’m focusing & dwelling on the past rather than putting that time & energy towards moving forward w the future
imo, you’re a smart, funny, attractive man who can do anything he wants ….I think if you’re really attracted to men and crave that kind of love & affection, then just fucking go for it ….I feel like you’re way past labels, so what’s the worst that could happen?
NedsMissingTeeth
3y ago
Are you gonna make love to me?
DustyOlMick
3y ago
Hello nigger ! is the party still going on in your nigger ass ? yes , i'm still fucked up just not as bad. i need to slow down but you know a nigger gots to fuck . hows the pup doin ? i'm chillen w/my dogs right now .
NedsMissingTeeth
3y ago
Was anyone invited?
HeavensHitman
3y ago
Ur house is beautiful. Ur definitely gay.
alextheking
3y ago
I don't see him in it
Sasquatch
3y ago
That's some very fancy party and beautiful house.
Where is does best buddy sleep in that amazing house ?
Sasquatch
3y ago
No ... Not for me. I don't mesh well with overtly religious individuals.
GIRLNEXTDOOR
3y ago
GUS!!!
your house & your party look fantastic!! ….dude, are you sure you just figured out that you’re gay? ….bc I’m 100% sure there are no straight men out there with such lovely style & taste lol :P
I love the living room w the blue sofa & then also the crystal chandelier in the other sitting room …I used to work at a French antique place and we had a baccarat one that was identical!!
also, your party setup looked so good!! …the food, the place settings, the string lights, etc …all just so perfect!!
In a few weeks I need to start planning my work Christmas party ….I think I’m coming to you for advice lol ….once I get the catering menu, you can please help me pick the menu ^.^
I sincerely hope you had a the best bday ever ….after your stressful year this year, you totally deserved it 🩵
33Horses
3y ago
thin ice babe, thin ice. thats one of my besties youre bubbling on about.
AtJap13
3y ago
I am doing great.
33Horses
3y ago
OOOH! HIM! I thought you were talking about someone else for a minute. (1st letter N, last letter D, vowel in the middle. ...ya kno)
do you think i speak and write German? ha,.. nope. Thats what the translator is for. So its not just for dummys, its for the lazy too. I cant be expected to learn an entirely new language for this internet stuff. But if things keep going as theyre going, chinese might come in handy soon enough.
33Horses
3y ago
"you'll blink and your ass going to be waking up in a concentration camp." LoL! NO thats not true!! hes a very loyal freind, and you cant continue to believe every German is nazified. Thats just ignorant. Thats like every native american still blaming whites for what columbus and coronado were doing, ...
Wait. Actually they do still blame us so that might not be a good example. But you know what i mean! lol
33Horses
3y ago